About Troy Spry

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Troy Spry, Founder and Coach

Troy Spry is a speaker, author, and certified life and relationship coach and “Reality Expert”.   A graduate of Winthrop University in South Carolina, he studied Psychology and officially began the study of human behavior.  Troy started a blog called XKLUSIVE THOUGHTS as a way to invite the world to share in the many interesting thoughts and conversations he had about life, love and the lessons they’ve taught him. 

His popular blog, books, conversation parties, webinars and seminars, inspirational morning messages, lunchtime discussions, and personal one-on-one relationship and life coaching helped Troy grow from a blog, to a brand, to movement.

He holds a position as an official staff writer for the award winning website BlackAndMarriedWithKids.com where he was recently the recipient of the “WRITER OF THE YEAR” and “WRITERS CHOICE AWARD.” Troy also has had the pleasure of writing for celebrity matchmaker Paul C. Brunson, has had his work featured in JET Magazine Online, and was chosen to be a guest blogger for the Steve Harvey Act like a Success Conference.  He is a dating expert and contributor for DatingAdvice.com, DigitalRomance.Com, VixenDaily.com, and RealBlackLove.com. Troy has been listed as a premier coach by BlackMenRock.net, has had the honor of being a featured guest on HuffPost Live, and WBTV Bounce TV in Charlotte, NC!

Troy’s blogging has taken him to new levels as he just released his new book “Teach Me How To Love: Why What You Don’t Know Will Hurt You” which is the second volume after publishing his first E-Book entitled “Teach Me How To Love: A Man’s Journey Toward and Through Marriage.”

Troy’s mission is simple: to inspire individuals to first become better people so that they can become better mates, create better relationships and ultimately help to build better communities.  He is a firm believer in the fact that you must live life intentionally and on purpose!

Outside of his writing, coaching, and speaking endeavors, Troy enjoys playing sports, traveling and spending time with his wife, friends, and brothers of Kappa Alpha Psi Fraternity Inc. It is time with those closest to him that keeps him grounded, relatable, and humble.

You can contact and follow Troy on twitter and Instagram at @Xklusive5 or on his Facebook fan page by searching Xklusive Thoughts. You can email him at info@XklusiveThoughts.com and his personal website and blog is www.xklusivethoughts.com. You can purchase his book at www.TeachMeHow2Love.com.


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Below are a few links to his guest posts and features:

King of the Month Spotlight: http://kiyenab.tumblr.com/post/43159375889/king-of-the-month

Black & Married with Kids Feature: http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/2012/10/a-young-man-shares-why-he-finally-decided-to-say-yes/

Stephan Speaks Feature: http://www.stephanspeaks.com/i-say-yes/#more-1556

Kingdom Voices Feature: http://kingdomvoicesmag.com/website/i-say-no-tales-of-a-young-husband/

Black Men Rock: www.blackmenrock.net

Dating Advice: http://www.datingadvice.com/for-men/what-you-should-know-before-saying-i-love-you

Kingdom Voices Magazine -" Men Making An Impact " : http://kingdomvoicesmag.com/website/men-making-an-impact/

Troy Spry feature on MSN Living " :  http://living.msn.com/love-relationships/love-sex/real-husbands-what-i-love-about-my-wife#15